I don’t have to explain myself at all, or answer to anyone. I’m happy. My feelings require no justification. It’s a mistake to try to reconcile what I feel with a social classification, because the classification may not really suit me. I start with my feelings, understand them and am comfortable with them. Me, my feelings, and the people I care about are the important things. I’m getting into this unnatural, inverted position of trying to explain myself to people who do not understand. I don’t have to explain myself to the world. I just am, and my relationships just are. If other people want to understand it, then I try to explain to them in basic terms – what I feel, and that I’m happy. That is all that should matter to anyone.